A Philosophy on Ds Relationship - Setting the Foundation

A thought provoking article on power exchange and the dynamics of the D/s relationshipA thought provoking article on power exchange and the dynamics of the D/s relationship.

I've neglected to update my update page! I'm such a spaz sometimes. Today I spent an hour or so updating the Bdsm Blogs page. So many people come and go that it can seem like a full time job just keeping up with the new blogs and taking down the abandoned ones.

New Article: Who are You? - Where are You with Yourself & The Lifestyle?

New Blogs: Click here to visit our blog community.

New Article: The D/s Cheat Sheet

My little way of simplifying D/s for everyone. Keep in mind, that like ALL D/s sites, the articles here reflect MY opinions and MY thoughts.

New card added to Female Dominant card section.

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New Article:

Demands vs Expectations

We all know what we want and we all know that, mostly, we'll get some of it and not all of it. Occasionally I talk to people who say they've ticked off every box on their wish list when it comes to a person to share themselves with but, frankly, I treat those people in a similar way to the ones that insist Elvis lives. With great suspicion. more...

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New Cards for female dominants to send. Click Here to View

New Blog Links Added. Go See!

New Cards

New cards for a dominant to send were added. You will find the newest at the bottom of the selections. Click here for cards

New Article Added

Role-Playing Scenarios

Fun bdsm scene ideas and scenarios.

New Article

He Looks like a Dom and Quacks like a Dom , but is he really a Dom?

Thoughts on the difference between appearing to be in control, and actually being in control.

Submissive Loving's Blog Community is now open.

I have listed some great submissive blogs but we are in need of dominant blogs. *hint hint*

New Section on the Site: Submissive Loving's Lifestyle Blog Community

I am currently accepting links to lifestyle blogs on that page. I will be posting links beginning May 1st.

New Featured Toy: The Venus Penis

This unique powerful clitoral, vaginal and anal stimulator is discrete with its clear see through design.

New Article: Can D/s Survive Marriage?

A well written piece by slave dove who looks at the stark realities of 24/7 dominance & submission.

New Toy of the Month: The televib - Finally you can truly touch your loved one or your submissive from across the globe. All you need is either a telephone or a computer with internet access. This is the most popular new toy around!!

Toy of the Month

Toy of the Month is a new page where I can share my new favorite toys with everyone. I was inspired last night when the house Mistress was playing with a new gadget that everyone thought was pretty fabulous.

The Electric Paddle

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New male submission themed card titled 'Blissfully Bound' added to cards section. The male submission cards are found at the bottom of the page. Will be adding more soon. I promise!

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New snippets:

Added a few words from moi to the Online bdsm page.

New books:

Added a cbt how-to book by Diva Midori (bottom of page) Click HERE to look

Found a delightful novel to add to the fiction section. Journey Round a Darker Sun

New page: BDSM/Sex Toys

Where to find quality bondage gear, fetish wear, and other fun toys to enhance play time!

New Article:

Points to Ponder - More Advice for Dominants

I wanted to take some time to say thank you to all of you for what
you have given to me by your continued support of Submissive Loving
and have created a special holiday card for you. *hugs and many
smooches*

Cerina

Click Here To View Card

New Article:

Submission From Strength

by Michael O'Caughin

The following was written as Michael's response to someone's offhand comment that they were surprised to find I (Cerina) am a submissive due to my manner and "attitude". I've held onto a copy of this for months and finally felt that it might be helpful to others in understanding why a strong willed submissive is found valuable. I mostly put off posting this to the site because I was shy about appearing to be tooting my own horn since the article is complimentary to...well......me. I simply want other submissives and dominants to know that subservience and submission are two different kettles of fish.

Thank you,
Cerina X

New Article:

The Number One Fear

Written in response to the recent site poll: "What is your greatest fear regarding entering into or being in a d/s relationship?"

New Cards


Four cards featuring artist Olivia Berardinis

Redesigned the information resource section of the site.

BDSM Books

Redesigned the Tantric Realm and added a new article about the "sex muscle".

Edited Article:

The Cinderella Complex

Fixed some spelling and added two new paragraphs.

New Article:

Dumped How to Spot a Non Dominant from the site and replaced it with:

Unhealthy Control - Warning Signs of a Non Dominant

Announced New Book:

Added the newly released book, "The New Topping Book" to Submissive Loving's Bookshop

Edited Article:

D/s 101 - The basics

Now only using my definitions and meanings to set the tone for my site.

Added:

Two new animated Submissive Loving banners to the banner page.

A few new cards to the D/s Postcards

Have eliminated most of the links to the Forum as that is pretty much dead. People aren't as interested in discussion and sharing as I think they should be so I'm killing the forum for lack of participation. (yes, this is me scolding a bit *grin*)

In general I've been tweaking html and other little items around the site. Most of it you won't notice but it needed to be done.

New Articles:

When Times Get Tough, Don't Get Selfish

The article is for submissives who might be feeling selfish regarding their dominants time and attention when he/she is going through a stressful period in their life.

Are You a Dominant or a God?

One submissive's words to dominants who may be going through a crisis of faith regarding their ability to dominate successfully.

Two New Articles:

Anticpating a Dominant's Needs

Anticipation of needs is one aspect of submission that my Master expects from me and I do believe that there are many other dominants who expect the same effort.

Anticipating a Dominant's Needs Part 2

A realistic approach from a slave regarding anticipation of her Master's needs.

Edits:
Fixed the links to the jealousy test and other recommended links on jealousy on the Submission and Jealousy article.

Tweaked and added another paragraph to the True, Real, and Wannabe: Ridding ourselves of the country club mentality article.

Two New Original Articles:

Ok, so Master beat me to the punch and finished his articles before
mine. I am very proud to present his work under the nom de plume,
Michael O'Caughin, and promptly changed the name on his previous
articles.

As usual, any and all thoughts regarding the articles on this site
are more than welcome.

An Examination of Sadism, Domination, and Punishment

Mike presents an interesting look at what it means to him as a
dominant regarding the punishment of a submissive.

The Training of a Sensual Submissive

A helpful article regarding training a submissive to be your perfect
sensual partner.